The "Back In Control" © program by Gregory Bodenhamer has unique advantages over many of the Reward/Punishment models of intervention with ADHD. It is a rule based system, which does not depend upon the desire of the child to comply. It is, in fact, a parent training system.
It asks parents to:
Define a few clear and precise rules ( you get exactly what you ask for, no more and no less)
Make the rules clear enough that a sitter could enforce them just as you would
Enforce the rules absolutely
Never reward or punish a rule.....ENFORCE it
Never argue with a child about a rule.....use "unhooking" words like "Nevertheless" or "Be that as it may"